Hi y'all!
My last post was all about random thing I did, saw and experienced at Chiang Mai and I have been thinking so hard what to do in order to have you guys back to read my tiny little blog again LOL
Well, It has been such interesting time with me lately. I have been busy planning on my first ever Europe trip. It involves a lot of paper works and blah blah. The good thing is, I get to forget about my ex for a while. Not that I can't get over him or anything but come on! it was 2 and a half years and I would be heartless to never have my own sad days at all. Thanks god, I have friends.
People gave me a lot of advises about how I should deal with my breakup or I would call it feeling missed out. Some said that I should just take a moment of my life, go somewhere and spend time with myself (Well, if my boss allowed me to take another holidays, I wouldn't hesitate LOL), some even said that I should just let myself go with how I feel and never force myself to not be sad (it's ok not to be ok) or very few said this to me "Honey, go get laid"
It made me realize that it actually has been 5 months since last time I got laid... wow! that is like a mini celibacy I had been through LOL ...and I did survive.
When I think of "getting laid" there are only few options out there especially here in Bangkok
1.) Go to the nearest gay club and try to hookup with someone.
2.) Summon someone from Grindr.
3.) Hit up to one of my old-day friends with benefit.
OH GOSH. Just writing about it already made me feel like I am a slut :P but hey that's human nature to have sex!
However, this is the thing about me when it comes to those things.
1.) Hooking up in the club
I might sound very out-going here on my blog but when it comes to real battlefield I am such a coward and socially awkward - especially when I really like the person. Most of time I have to intoxicate myself in order to build up my courage to go hit on someone. Therefore, when I am there, I really have to be so lucky to get someone back from the club.
2.) Grindr hookup
OK, I would be lying if I said I never did that but getting someone to meet up with you from Grindr takes time and patience if you are not super good looking as if you were straight out off Calvin Klein ads. To me, there is something more with Grindr that I could do, for example, go for dinner and drinks before jumping in his bed which might sound very absurd when the main purpose of Grindr is to jump right into his bed and wait for Uber to pick you up when you are done with business. I am not really down for quick action, except, he is really really my type :P (not guilty at all)
3.) Old-day friends with benefit
I don't know if it is a thing or if it is just me but it is really difficult to keep doing what I did with all of my old-day friends with benefit. I mean I always consider them as friends after and that actually makes it awkward an difficult when I want to have sex with them again. Moreover, most of them knew that I was dating or some of them even met my ex which would make it even more awkward.
SO... "go get laid" wouldn't help me out because I am not clinging on my ex - instead I'm slowly and surprisingly getting over him. Completely.
And not to hook up for quick fun. I mean I started to chat with someone on there first, I had my own filter system even you Paid version of Grindr can't do it. I will write about how my experience on Grindr is after 2 and half years of not using it at all (and I swear to goddess Beyonce).
After chatting with like maybe 20 guys? I actually found someone who is friendly and very mature. It was quite long session of chatting and it took us 2 weeks of chatting before we agreed to meet up in person - for dinner.
We finally came up with the place to meet up a few days before our date which made me realize how hassle and nerve-wracking it could be when you have to prepare yourself for a date. Props to those who don't have to do anything for it.
So we made to this Japanese restaurant where I went with my girls before and I loved the food. The guy is charming which made me feel even nervous. Thanks to his personality, I calm myself down after a few shots of Sake with amazing ramen. We did what normal people would do on a date like talk about work, food, life and experiences he had but it was Saturday night and it wouldn't be complete without continuing to a bar nearby which I intelligently chose one of my favorite rooftop bars where my friend who works there could get me discount. :D
With a nice view and my friends who joined us at the bar, it was such a lovely night. All of my friends agreed that he was a lovely guy. We had like 4 cocktails with a lot of topics to talk about. I love when we all have never-ending topics to talk about during conversation.
Our night ended with me kissing his cheek before sending him off the taxi. Not that I did not want anything sexual with him. I just wanted to make it right. Believe me, I felt very good having that date because I felt like it was quality one. I and he might not make it happen, who knows, but hey I did not do it so bad for very first time in years of not having date - especially from grindr.
So my celibacy still remains for another nights but I have made another dating plan with him so let's see ;)
Have a lovely Monday my friends,
Scotty
My last post was all about random thing I did, saw and experienced at Chiang Mai and I have been thinking so hard what to do in order to have you guys back to read my tiny little blog again LOL
Well, It has been such interesting time with me lately. I have been busy planning on my first ever Europe trip. It involves a lot of paper works and blah blah. The good thing is, I get to forget about my ex for a while. Not that I can't get over him or anything but come on! it was 2 and a half years and I would be heartless to never have my own sad days at all. Thanks god, I have friends.
People gave me a lot of advises about how I should deal with my breakup or I would call it feeling missed out. Some said that I should just take a moment of my life, go somewhere and spend time with myself (Well, if my boss allowed me to take another holidays, I wouldn't hesitate LOL), some even said that I should just let myself go with how I feel and never force myself to not be sad (it's ok not to be ok) or very few said this to me "Honey, go get laid"
GO GET LAID?
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| Credit : advocate.com |
It made me realize that it actually has been 5 months since last time I got laid... wow! that is like a mini celibacy I had been through LOL ...and I did survive.
When I think of "getting laid" there are only few options out there especially here in Bangkok
1.) Go to the nearest gay club and try to hookup with someone.
2.) Summon someone from Grindr.
3.) Hit up to one of my old-day friends with benefit.
OH GOSH. Just writing about it already made me feel like I am a slut :P but hey that's human nature to have sex!
However, this is the thing about me when it comes to those things.
1.) Hooking up in the club
I might sound very out-going here on my blog but when it comes to real battlefield I am such a coward and socially awkward - especially when I really like the person. Most of time I have to intoxicate myself in order to build up my courage to go hit on someone. Therefore, when I am there, I really have to be so lucky to get someone back from the club.
2.) Grindr hookup
OK, I would be lying if I said I never did that but getting someone to meet up with you from Grindr takes time and patience if you are not super good looking as if you were straight out off Calvin Klein ads. To me, there is something more with Grindr that I could do, for example, go for dinner and drinks before jumping in his bed which might sound very absurd when the main purpose of Grindr is to jump right into his bed and wait for Uber to pick you up when you are done with business. I am not really down for quick action, except, he is really really my type :P (not guilty at all)
3.) Old-day friends with benefit
I don't know if it is a thing or if it is just me but it is really difficult to keep doing what I did with all of my old-day friends with benefit. I mean I always consider them as friends after and that actually makes it awkward an difficult when I want to have sex with them again. Moreover, most of them knew that I was dating or some of them even met my ex which would make it even more awkward.
SO... "go get laid" wouldn't help me out because I am not clinging on my ex - instead I'm slowly and surprisingly getting over him. Completely.
So what is the best way out?!
The answer is Grindr... |
| Credit : Grindr App |
After chatting with like maybe 20 guys? I actually found someone who is friendly and very mature. It was quite long session of chatting and it took us 2 weeks of chatting before we agreed to meet up in person - for dinner.
We finally came up with the place to meet up a few days before our date which made me realize how hassle and nerve-wracking it could be when you have to prepare yourself for a date. Props to those who don't have to do anything for it.
 |
| Credit : Slate.com |
So we made to this Japanese restaurant where I went with my girls before and I loved the food. The guy is charming which made me feel even nervous. Thanks to his personality, I calm myself down after a few shots of Sake with amazing ramen. We did what normal people would do on a date like talk about work, food, life and experiences he had but it was Saturday night and it wouldn't be complete without continuing to a bar nearby which I intelligently chose one of my favorite rooftop bars where my friend who works there could get me discount. :D
With a nice view and my friends who joined us at the bar, it was such a lovely night. All of my friends agreed that he was a lovely guy. We had like 4 cocktails with a lot of topics to talk about. I love when we all have never-ending topics to talk about during conversation.
Our night ended with me kissing his cheek before sending him off the taxi. Not that I did not want anything sexual with him. I just wanted to make it right. Believe me, I felt very good having that date because I felt like it was quality one. I and he might not make it happen, who knows, but hey I did not do it so bad for very first time in years of not having date - especially from grindr.
So my celibacy still remains for another nights but I have made another dating plan with him so let's see ;)
Have a lovely Monday my friends,
Scotty
I found the blog some what interesting in its content wise and easier to understand what they had said. I love if you publish the blogs often.
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