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The 84 minutes of amazing gay kiss!

Hello, my people! Today I am in a discovering mood (it's too early in the morning and my family visited me here but Id rather spend time on my blog), I found this video of two guys kissing for 84 minutes, continuously! However, this entry won't be about either thai guys, western guys, cultural explanation or some knowledge that makes you understand something more. I want to share this video in the manner of announcing gay right! The video was posted by Idan Bitton with the description; First Kiss is a 84 minute kiss video between the artists Idan Bitton and Alfredo Calle Ferran. While the camera is still, the kiss is in motion provoking the viewer to stay and watch. Idan and Alfredo do not interact with the viewer, but offer a peek into their intimate moments of commitment. This long lasting, present and unapologetic kiss defines our current gay rights momentum. We are here, we love each other, and this is what it looks like.  Idan Bitton and Alfredo Calle Ferran c

"Farang" financial status, you Thai gays please behold!

Hello gay guys!  First, I have to apologize for you 2 things in this article… 1.) This article is not meant for you all westerners, on the other hand, it is for my people, thai gays.  2.) I told you guys before I wouldn't use the word "Farang" in this blog but this is really specific for Thai gays so it would be a bit conflicting. Alright if you, westerners, are reading this along with me it can be great as well because I am going to explain my people about the most irritating but important thing - Money.  Yes, Thai people have been taught for ages that all westerners have a lot of money to spend in Thailand as they can see it everyday that you guys spend money in Thailand like that money is just a bunch of leaves.  Alright, my people! Now behold, I have a ton of "Farang" friends telling me about our mistaken thought over their money. You see, we all have this kind of live circle - born, study and work.  And work is what I am focusing

Greng Jai?! I Don't know!

Hello Gay guys, It's been ages that I have not written this blog I hope you guys still stick with me here. I do apologize as I had so many things going on lately; university things that always keep me busy such as my never-ending  exams, my freelance job which is my main income and my social life which is the award of my life- great time in "DJ station". Anyways, today  I would like to fulfill you with this long but not loquacious article in order to make up for my absence.  And the article today goes to "Greng Jai" thingy!  Greng Jai - noun, adj., verb  If you don't know what Greng Jai is… I would like to explain first as "greng jai" is totally important for Thai people and it plays the key role on Thai society and of course this greng jai thing is undoubtedly part of your thai guy.  Greng Jai has various meanings depending on the situations and I am going to explain its meanings as many as possible.  To put this

Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part VII) : I know it best!

Good weekend sir! Here I am again to write some more stories that I've stocked and waited to flow them out for you all to read and learn. My today article is something in Thai guy that can irk you more than Nicki Minaj's music it's the concept of "ego" in general Thai guy or as known as "I know it best" You guys might have confronted with this annoying situation when you had the time to discuss something with your boyfriend and suddenly when it came to the topic that you both didn't agree with each other and you know you were right but your boyfriend thought he was right as well. Because he is asian and people think that asian is really intelligent, he fought till his last breath and most of the time he would show that "he knew it best" while it's all wrong. Why? I think it's all about "losing face" again. Whenever your guy tries to argue with you about something he misunderstands it can be that he knows that

Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part VI) : He has super sugary tongue!

Hello gay guys! I am back again and today I have something that I really really want you guys to know about Thai guys. It's about "sweet tongue" Well, I don't mean about "kissing" or anything! Contrastly, it's about how your boyfriend speaks with you in an overly sweet conversation that you can't believe it was him talking. Cross the sweet kind of boyfriend out because they are congenitally sweet but I am talking about general thai guy if you haven't read about how thai boyfriend doesn't like to show his feeling of love read this entry . As in the entry said that normal Thai guys don't like to show their feeling of love but they like to show it in action more, it would be non sense how someday your boyfriend comes up with something really sweet. Well, there's a case that your boyfriend wants to be sweet because it's a special occasion or he wants to make you so good that time but it lasts just a day or two...maybe less. When

Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part V) : Another common problem you might see again!

Hello guys!!!! I do apologize for being absent as I've been working so hard in my class ( if class means chatting online and spending time on gayromeo but here I am Before I start to write anything, I would like brag something about my own pride on Valentine's day! NOT THAT I JUST HAD BOYFRIEND(which is sad) Contrastly! I just won the English speech competition! well, that can be worth as I spent like 6 hours in the competition so I didn't have much time to moan about being SINGLE! - Yeah Gay rules! Alrighty! Today I feel like continuing the previous entry which is about the "common problem" and the story today can be really general for someone - yet it can be really really shocking for those who never knew about this Your Privacy is totally invalid!!   I've written in my previous entries - quite often tho - about how your boyfriend will know about you and some other guy, you may think that it would come from his friends who are everywhere in the ci

Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part IV) : Really common problem you might see during the time you are in relationship with your Thai Boyfriend

Well, I had a chance to speak with one of my friends who is actually confronting with some drama things with his boyfriend every single day - well, let's just say the things are on and off. After talking with him on Facebook, I could realize some problems you might see during the time you spent with your Thai boyfriend.  His love is more likely to be action, not feeling!  Let me tell you about Thai people in the past; when a guy got married with a woman, the woman would then be housewife and there's no need for them to work outside the house which means the housewife had to do all the house chore. This thing has been engraved in Thai people's brain for long long time until it became part of our culture, even so many things have changed right now.  Why did I talk about 'woman'?  I just want you to know that some Thai gay guys consider themselves as your 'housewives' which means they need to do some house chores to show you that they really

Must-know facts about Thai gays (part III) - Drama Queen!

HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCE DRAMA QUEEN ATTACK??? Hello gay guys! It's been a long time since my last update for my blog! Today I had an experience to meet up with one of my best friends and we had really nice conversation about Thai guys. That conversation reminded me something that I MUST write on this blog so I came straight here in order to write this article which is about something you guys wouldn't want to experience that much in Thai guys. Yes! I am gonna talk about 'drama queen' thing. If you have Thai boyfriend, I am quite sure that you've had this experience of some weird thing . Why do they become Drama Queens? First thing, gay people are still human beings, which means we still have feeling and conscience. It would be inevitable to become 'jealous' once you are made to believe that someone you are with is going to be with you forever and ever but later on he became different person. Read carefully please focus on 'made to bel

Must-know facts about Thai guys (Part II) : They save 'face' more than 'money'

Lose face? What the heck is this? Come on! don't pretend like you don't know it, just because you guys are hardly in this kind of situation but behold folks! This thing is really common in Thailand and maybe it's become part of the culture now. Well, losing face is feeling extremely embarrassed or being in a really really awkward situation... and that is what we, Thai people really hate! Geert Hofstede I think it is not fair to say that Thai guys are afraid to lose face as actually all Thai people are. First thing is, according to Geert Hofstede's Cultural dimension, Thai people has really high point for the concept of uncertainty avoidance culture, which means Thai people are afraid to to be in such an uncertain situation. Alright enough for academic article... let's go back to the reality However, it really makes sense. Now time to explain how we would be like if we are in 'face-losing' situation. Let me explain by telling the story.

Must-know facts about Thai gays! (part I)

I am sooooooo sure that many many of you have had experienced to meet up with some thai guys unless you wouldn't be reading this article! I am sure there are so many things you're still so confused. There might be millions of times that 'why' questions popped up in your head like you are 3 year-old boy who just get to know the world.  Even though you have had met up maybe more than a thousand of thai guys (as friends or whatever it can be) you still don't understand it all about Thai guys... Here are some facts that will tell you about what is hidden under that dark, smooth and sexy skin.   Iceberg culture  Let me put this in the easiest way to explain. Have you ever asked your Thai guy if he wants something on the dining table on your first date? Or even asked if he needed your helps? Well, literally he might say no but what he was thinking that time was maybe on the other hand. What I want to tell you is that ALMOST Thai guys don't mean wha

Start with Sa Was Dee!

Sa was dee gay guys! Welcome to my blog (actually is a very very first official gay blog I ever had) Very simple, this blog is meant for giving you guys knowledge about us, Thai gays. As I've been profound a lot about a ton of misunderstandings, conflicts and ridiculously infamous things about Thai gays. I've searched through the internet to read about attitude towards Thai gays in the blogs written by westerner authors. Around 70% of those blogs I've read were all bout some conflicts that those westerners had with Thai boys; money boys, liars, cheating, disrespectful manners, obnoxious ways of thinking etc. You guys are right as there are these kinds of person everywhere here but you are having a 'SINGLE STORY' about Thai boys! Now it's my turn to clarify and sort something out for you guys I am one of Thai gays who partly understands the concept of 'being gay in Thailand' Whether you are westerners or the local, you may have been educated or exp