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Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part VI) : He has super sugary tongue!

Hello gay guys!
I am back again and today I have something that I really really want you guys to know about Thai guys. It's about "sweet tongue" Well, I don't mean about "kissing" or anything! Contrastly, it's about how your boyfriend speaks with you in an overly sweet conversation that you can't believe it was him talking.
Cross the sweet kind of boyfriend out because they are congenitally sweet but I am talking about general thai guy if you haven't read about how thai boyfriend doesn't like to show his feeling of love read this entry. As in the entry said that normal Thai guys don't like to show their feeling of love but they like to show it in action more, it would be non sense how someday your boyfriend comes up with something really sweet. Well, there's a case that your boyfriend wants to be sweet because it's a special occasion or he wants to make you so good that time but it lasts just a day or two...maybe less.

Whenever you Thai boyfriend suddenly becomes really sweet to you, just try to figure it out what he really wants; maybe he wants something from you or he has done SOMETHING WRONG.

I will call the word "sweet tongue" in Thai word as "Pak Wan" so you can use it later with your boyfriend. Well, when he is Pak Wan with you for the reason of asking you for something, he kind of expects you to buy for him... and but for him. So simple, buy for him or not buy for him, it's on your own decision.

However, when it comes to the guilt that he has done, then it's something a bit complicated as he tries to be super Pak Wan to you so that you will forgive him without any reluctance.
SO! your duty is to ASK what he wants he becomes really sweet yo you but please be a little gentle and discreet as you don't want to offend your boyfriend's real determination in case he really wants to be sweet without "REASON" - Yes that happens sometimes, we have this random paranormal activity.

Alright, I've been complained about my articles that aimed for those who have their lovers only so I think I will talk more about single guys' cases as well - as I am one of them. LOL.

As I am single, I learn to be super Pak Wan as well but not for those purposes. Pak Wan can be used for single guys to hook up with someone he really likes but most of the time his Pak Wan became really bad pick-up line and then he became so boring.
one thing, it would be hard for thai guy - if he's never been abroad before - to understand all pun and amazing pick-up lines to impress the guy he likes so it's better to do Thai joke for pick-up line so it's even worse... I know that.

You may say that some guy is attractive even he doesn't need to do anything to impress you but remember to have good sense of humor or intelligent conversation will make sure that he's the guy who is not gonna choke you while you are having sex with him and he can be the one you want to share your good time with, share your problem without getting shouted at or even have a good small talk in a rush hour that can calm you down from your hectic life.
BUT if it's all about one night stand then go on. I have heard a lot of stories about one night stand thing as one of my friends usually get guys every single time he goes to DJ station and those guys are all super good looking so I asked what he liked in those guys and what he answered was like; "he's cute", "he's shy and I love it"," he can hold the 'conversation' ( that lasts only a few minutes) really well even tho his English was not good" and "I like him!"It's really really few times that he told me the reason like "This guy's got a really good sense of humor" or "He's really intelligent that can make me stop to listen to him" and most of the time he got baited by a guy because the guy was so Pak Wan to him plus the guy was super heavenly handsome.

Now we, OK-looking Thai guy with small sense of humor and really boring pick-up line are all doomed so PLEASE don't mind our dry pick-up line please... if you open up for it... then it will get well ;)

Have a lovely Thursgay!
Scotty.

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