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Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part V) : Another common problem you might see again!

Hello guys!!!! I do apologize for being absent as I've been working so hard in my class ( if class means chatting online and spending time on gayromeo but here I am

Before I start to write anything, I would like brag something about my own pride on Valentine's day! NOT THAT I JUST HAD BOYFRIEND(which is sad) Contrastly! I just won the English speech competition! well, that can be worth as I spent like 6 hours in the competition so I didn't have much time to moan about being SINGLE! - Yeah Gay rules!

Alrighty! Today I feel like continuing the previous entry which is about the "common problem" and the story today can be really general for someone - yet it can be really really shocking for those who never knew about this

Your Privacy is totally invalid!!  


I've written in my previous entries - quite often tho - about how your boyfriend will know about you and some other guy, you may think that it would come from his friends who are everywhere in the city , much more than the fake CCTVs in Bangkok. Well, I would say that it can be part of it but have you ever heard about this, "the safest place can be the most dangerous place in the same time"

Yes I am talking about your Phone! If you think that Facebook has really little security on privacy, think again! Introducing Thai gays - ability of hacking your phone, check up all your messages and look up through every single photos in your phone! Moreover, they can make up new stories which later on will be used against you.

Well, in Thai culture - No let's not say it's Thai "CULTURE" as I have been considered to be the one who always blames everything on my culture - OK! It's a common Thai thing that when you have lover, it's like you are a same person so to check up on your phone would be normal and it can be something about "trust" but if one day you protect your phone with password or try to hide something from your guy in your phone then brace yourself! Another nightmare is coming.

You have no idea how skillful Thai guy can be to hack your password. He can just sit next to you and talk to you about general thing but while you typing your password, his eyes are not with you but on your screen and capturing every move of your finger on the password screen - password saved and he pretended not to know anything. Later at the night time when you sleep early or he can sleep earlier but when you sleep he will wake up and then his Mission Impossible will be in progress. Even though your boyfriend seems to have Alzheimer on the mistakes he had done to  you, believe me he will never forget your password once he could remember it. He will check through your phone - If he could, I thought he would check when your is produced. If you don't have anything suspicious then GOOD NIGHT but if not! Time to wake up and be in his emotional game!


How to get out from this annoying thing?!


I guess this thing is really serious for you so I guess it's your job to explain your guy about this before things go in the way you are not pleased and that will lead to something really bad as you both are going to be really mad about this and you know what will happen later.

AND one more thing about an application on your phone - Grindr. I am one of really few gays who don't have Grindr on my phone ( Cuz it's a bloody Symbian Nokia!) but I think this application - when used in Thailand - it can be a relationship breaking material. I never tried this application before and I guess it can be interesting if I have it - Of course!!!! However, if you think that you don't want any of those that I've mentioned above to happen and you can't have your own privacy with your boyfriend then STOP using Grindr - not only Grindr, but also Jack'd, manhunt, gayromeo and many others!
It's impossible I know. Then there's no way besides explaining to your guy about your privacy because there's no point for you to change your password everyday or even harder because your boyfriend will start to think that there might something REALLY there! And believe me IT IS WORSE!

After all you've read my blog, I hope you don't give up on Thai guys as there are still good guys out there - at least this blogger is still available LOL

Have a lovely sunday night and be ready for your work tomorrow
xoxo
Scott

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