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Welcome to my blog (actually is a very very first official gay blog I ever had)
Very simple, this blog is meant for giving you guys knowledge about us, Thai gays. As I've been profound a lot about a ton of misunderstandings, conflicts and ridiculously infamous things about Thai gays.

 I've searched through the internet to read about attitude towards Thai gays in the blogs written by westerner authors. Around 70% of those blogs I've read were all bout some conflicts that those westerners had with Thai boys; money boys, liars, cheating, disrespectful manners, obnoxious ways of thinking etc. You guys are right as there are these kinds of person everywhere here but you are having a 'SINGLE STORY' about Thai boys! Now it's my turn to clarify and sort something out for you guys

I am one of Thai gays who partly understands the concept of 'being gay in Thailand' Whether you are westerners or the local, you may have been educated or experienced on your own about the rainbow beautiful life in Thailand.

I actually like a white-asian gay couple on the street (I mean real couple that there's no money issue involving, if you know what I mean) These people are really really cute together and there are tons of them in Bangkok! Well, I WAS one of them--ages ago.

Yet there are too many conflicts! why is that??? 
A lot of people have told me that it's all about different mentalities, different cultures and different traditions. 

Well, that can be part of the reasons why these things keep happening and they usually crumble their beautiful relationships.

As I am a big big supporter for white-asian gay couple, I totally want my blog to be some educational material for you all to clearly understand about how we, Thai gays, really are.
And hopefully, you guys will as well share me your ways of thinking towards Thai guys so that I can share it on here and believe me, your Thai guy will understand you more than he ever did!

Have a lovely gay day,
xxx
Scotty

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