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How to handle when your Thai ex is haunting you

Hi gay guys!
OMG! I have to apologise again about me being absent on updating my entry here but here I am again.

Alright guys, I've been tired of having loquacious introduction on here.

There is love so it won't be surprising that there will be a good-bye but what we are talking today is all about if it's a "good" good-bye or a bad-bye.  For good good-bye, you all know that it always ends up as a wonderful thing and you and your ex remain friend - that's really awesome I totally love it. But how about bad-bye and it became a nightmare???

What if your ex still couldn't let go? ...let you go?? What if your ex thought that there will be another episode of your love life?

I know you are thinking of this guy


He is creepy...

Okey, when it comes to the situation of when you could feel that your ex is still around you and you see him every single place you go - stalking - you would feel uncomfortable. It's even worse when you have your new guy and your new guy got this paranormal activity from you ex too.


How to handle it?


First of all, make sure if your ex has some mental problem or not if yes then what you have to do is something pretty intense - you know what it is.

However, I wouldn't always blame it on him to not be able to get over you but it might be you who didn't make it clear when you left him or the way you guys finished was because you had some guy while you had him. This put him to the full extreme level of shame or even vengeance. All he wants is to have you back otherwise just simply screw your life ( I know it sounds crazy but it is the way it is) 

I believe good conversation solves problems out. Therefore, for the first step I believe you might need to have a serious discussion with your ex about what he is doing isn't the right thing and he should move on. DO NOT offer to be his friend - believe me it doesn't help anything. Imagine when you are madly in love with someone and all you want is to have him with you and then you get friend zoned by that person - sucks. Just make it clear that you guys are not the same anymore. One more thing, if you want him to be your friend please try reading this entry I've written before Click here

I believe it might answer something.






But what if he didn't want to have conversation and rejected to confront with you and then he started something really unacceptable with you or you guys?

There's only one way to solve this - just warn him that if he does that again you might need to see him in police station.

But I believe that good conversation really helps, just try your best. Put yourself in his shoes and try to understand how you would feel you had to be in such situation plus thai guy are way so complicated when it comes to this thing and you know they don't get over really easily.

I apologize for this entry to be short as I am in a rush on my work now but I don't forget to update this as I just had the chance to hear this story from some people at the bar. I hope you, the guy who has this trouble, read this entry and try to make it the right way.


Have a fabulous gay day!
Scott
xxx

Comments

  1. AnonymousMarch 29, 2014 at 2:03 AM

    Please stop offering advice on subjects that beyond your capability.

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