Thai gay, I am.

A lot of people have been fighting for Gay Right all over of the world. Some countries have legalized gay marriage or even allowed them to have full right in law. However, Thailand is the country where Gay right isn't law but cultural benefit, which pretty much means we are doing so fine being gay here in Thailand. Since Gay community here is quite open and accepted (or is tolerated ) by most of people in this country, gay people can fully enjoy life and be what we want. However, there is only one big concern about gay people in Thailand - HIV infection. These past few years, the number of the HIV infected are increasing dramatically - let alone in Bangkok, the HIV infected rate has increased 11% between 1987 - 2011 and continuing to rise rapidly. There are so many reasons why we are risking it as gay people and one of the reasons is unsafe sex because of a better experience in sexual relationship - no condoms. I've searched through internet and found out that there...

Hi guys, How was your weekend going? Having fun or some crazy time? Well, my party night is never get so boring when I go to Stranger Bar. I am sure many of you who are reading my blog at the moment might probably be there very often. Thanks picture from Stranger Bar But lately I'd rather spend my night as a sober boy and I got to see a lot of interesting things in my sober point of view. I got to see how all of my friends look like when they are wasted, I got to see how silom night life looks like when everybody was drunk and I was only one who wasn't and of course I got to see DJ station at another perspective. Importantly, I got to see something really interesting in DJ station. Of course I saw a lot of straight people in gay club :) I really wanna talk about cute things from straight people in DJ station.  One night, It started at the beginning of soi 2 where I was waiting for my lovely girl friend to arrive. There were 2 straight guys standing and wai...

Ever wonder why same-sex relationship, especially in Bangkok, ends really quickly? You have been seeing your friends - both western or asian - including yourself have been suffering from heartbreaking relationships and it happens for a reason or many reasons. You may know that major reasons are from how thai guys are such drama queens and when it comes to relationship, that never works. Even tho drama queen thing could lead to a lot of tensions in relationship, believe me there is something more than that. He wants to change you  Thai culture is well-known for the care and concern and by saying care it can reach to the point of "too much" sometimes. Seeing from the ancestor and being inbred, most of Thai guys are very caring and when they are into you, you are like his whole world. What's problem with that? Well, everybody is not perfect and you might have some bad habits that he is not pleased which makes him want so hard to try to make you a better person o...

Hi guys, Yes I am back again. However, I got a chance to read about an article on the internet from a blogger named iangalsm (to be honest, I don't know his real name but that is his blog name) He pointed out about the reasons why gay relationships don't last long (follow his article here)  The article drove me to the full level of motivation to write this blog. I stopped doing what I was doing after reading the article and came here to write this entry. Ian has said in the intelligent way and it is right to the point. While I was reading, the first thing that came across in my mind was "gay relationships in Bangkok" and here I am. I would so much like to integrate his article to explain about how a lot of beautiful castles end here. ( there are a lot of interesting articles on his blog maybe you guys want to try to read some as it is not only for asian-white gay people but it's for every gay on this planet earth) Alright so the first thing he was...