Must-know facts About Thai gays (Part VII) : I know it best!

Good weekend sir!
Here I am again to write some more stories that I've stocked and waited to flow them out for you all to read and learn.

My today article is something in Thai guy that can irk you more than Nicki Minaj's music it's the concept of "ego" in general Thai guy or as known as "I know it best"

You guys might have confronted with this annoying situation when you had the time to discuss something with your boyfriend and suddenly when it came to the topic that you both didn't agree with each other and you know you were right but your boyfriend thought he was right as well.

Because he is asian and people think that asian is really intelligent, he fought till his last breath and most of the time he would show that "he knew it best" while it's all wrong.

Why?

I think it's all about "losing face" again. Whenever your guy tries to argue with you about something he misunderstands it can be that he knows that he's wrong but he doesn't to feel ashamed or "lose face" because when he's over sure about something, it must be that and only that thing! However, once he realizes he would be like "OH DEAR!" but he had to do anything to get over this thing by arguing and believe me during this time he can find a lot of information without using internet to use against you. In the end, if you don't agree with him he will just keep silent not because he accepts the mistakes but it's sign showing that you're "doomed" to dare to argue with him.

Anyway, there is another reason for him to try to "know it best" it is that, he wants to be accepted or believed that he's intelligent. This is nothing wrong at all but a bit irritating. The reason he does that because of you, he wants to show you that he has what it takes to be your boyfriend, however, he underestimates you as he thought you would not know about what he says. FAIL!

How to solve this problem? 

Well, do you know that "ego" cannot be destroyed but what you have to do is to try to be nice when you argue with him try to use your sweet words to make him feel relaxed AND don't try to do anything to make him feel "lose face" remember lose face is the most important thing in Thailand so try to avoid any possibility that your boyfriend will get face lost after your answers. Sooner or later he will go along with you and then it will be all fine. However, if you want your relationship to be a little interesting... then when it's fine, bring up the story to lose his face sometimes, warning, in his good mood. ;)

So guys
Have a lovely sunday!
Scotty
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