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Only almost a year has passed, I have grown 10 years older.

So it has been almost 10 months of being single while I am writing this entry. I have been fighting it to the max in order to achieve my personal goals in career. It has been SO WELL . However, it means I have to sacrifice my time for it instead of spending it on many other things. Here is the story of my 2017 of mood swing (LOL) Well, before I start this entry, I would like to make it clear that it is very subjective and I would like to see it as my personal expression through my blog. Let say, it has been 10 months and my life has taken its big big turn. I have tried so hard to filter myself on social media given the circumstances that it went way too far sometimes, I have been trying to achieve at least one personal goal per month, I have been learning Dutch for almost 2 months now (Ja, ik spreekt beetje Nederlands nu) , I have been spending most of the time trying to be in a better shape - physically and mentally.  It has been 10 months of life journey, been to Europe (fina
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5 months of no sex and I just had a date first time in 2 and a half years!

Hi y'all! My last post was all about random thing I did, saw and experienced at Chiang Mai and I have been thinking so hard what to do in order to have you guys back to read my tiny little blog again LOL Well, It has been such interesting time with me lately. I have been busy planning on my first ever Europe trip. It involves a lot of paper works and blah blah. The good thing is, I get to forget about my ex for a while. Not that I can't get over him or anything but come on! it was 2 and a half years and I would be heartless to never have my own sad days at all. Thanks god, I have friends. People gave me a lot of advises about how I should deal with my breakup or I would call it feeling missed out. Some said that I should just take a moment of my life, go somewhere and spend time with myself (Well, if my boss allowed me to take another holidays, I wouldn't hesitate LOL), some even said that I should just let myself go with how I feel and never force myself to not be s
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What did Scott do in Chiang Mai

I don't own this picture and I can't find the owner either. Amazing picture tho. I believe many of you have heard about Chiang Mai. It is one of the most beautiful cities in Thailand. In addition, it is also a creative city yet not so much when it comes to gay scenes (LOL). So, I decided to take a short break with my work to come to this city where a lot of my friends and my ex call home. (Let me make myself clear, I have no intention to come here to meet him or anything. In fact, he didn't even know I am here) I started my first night at a so-called best gay bar in Chiang Mai with drag show named Ram Bar (No photos taken, sorry guys). The bar was nice but the drinks were a bit too high according to my standard. However, it is not about the place or the drinks, it is about who you are hanging out with. After Ram Bar, we decided to go to this hidden gem called Boy Bar. Boy bar is owned by a guy named Boy who has fierce sense of fashion, very interesting attitude an
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2017 Wow! you just got me!

I know I know it has been 2 years since I last wrote this blog and it might take sometimes until I gain you guys back. Well, I had no excuse but you know it was the university, graduation, work and love life that happened in the past 2 years and I barely have time to come up with goods stories to share with you guys. I might have had a few but then they were faded away like how fast they popped up in my mind. The thing is, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. Which means I am single. However, I do not want to use this as an excuse to continue my blog but it is such an interesting thing to start my 2017 with ... and I need to share this with you all. My previous entries that I wrote were completely from all stories my friends shared with me. Now, it is purely my story... the true story that even my own blog couldn't help me. I and my ex-boyfriend met because we were introduced by our friend which was such a  good sign when it comes to gay relationship. He is 6 feet tall, bearde
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"Money Boy" - Dark side or just prejudice

Hi Gay boys! Happy Wednesday, I hope you guys are still doing fine here and not forgetting about me. Today topic is going to be somewhat delicate so reading discretion is strongly advised. If you have visited or even have the plan to visit Thailand, you would already get to read a lot of topics about Thai gay scenes. There are a ton of gay scenes here all over of this land of smile. However, no matter where the scene is or how big the community seems to be, there is one relatively common group of people that always come along with these places - Money boys. I have no idea when the word "Money boy" was used but the word itself has the ultimate meaning. Money, of course, means the money, bling bling or sometimes can be accessories and boys - yeah boys. Money boys usually hang out with (most of the time) aged foreigners aka. Sugar Daddies, they usually spend time somewhere regardless restaurants or bars but these boys will always get sponsored by the foreigners. They wo
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"I miss you" why does he really need that?

Hi guys, First thing, I think you guys know that I have to push myself so hard on my project that I have informed you all in previous entry. However,  this week is kinda a relaxing week for me and it is a good opportunity to write an entry (at least to make my blog not to be that abandoned) Well, if you have or had thai boyfriend (including some asian boyfriend) and you have to be away from him for quite sometime you would realize that almost every of his messages that he sent you would always include the word "I miss you" and many of you might feel a little weird when that escalated way too quickly. Here is the quick and brief explanation guys. According to our culture, no matter if it is gay or straight, thai people have the background culture on the idea of "missing somebody" and that runs too deep in us. When you are away from your cute little thai boy, it means you will not be able to spend time with him and that kinda makes him feel like some part of
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Invitation for my Upcoming Project

A lot of people have been fighting for Gay Right all over of the world. Some countries have legalized gay marriage or even allowed them to have full right in law. However, Thailand is the country where Gay right isn't law but cultural benefit, which pretty much means we are doing so fine being gay here in Thailand. Since Gay community here is quite open and accepted (or is tolerated ) by most of people in this country, gay people can fully enjoy life and be what we want. However, there is only one big concern about gay people in Thailand - HIV infection. These past few years, the number of the HIV infected are increasing dramatically - let alone in Bangkok, the HIV infected rate has increased 11% between 1987 - 2011 and continuing to rise rapidly. There are so many reasons why we are risking it as gay people and one of the reasons is unsafe sex because of a better experience in sexual relationship - no condoms. I've searched through internet and found out that there
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