Thai gay, I am.

Well, I had a chance to speak with one of my friends who is actually confronting with some drama things with his boyfriend every single day - well, let's just say the things are on and off. After talking with him on Facebook, I could realize some problems you might see during the time you spent with your Thai boyfriend.  His love is more likely to be action, not feeling!  Let me tell you about Thai people in the past; when a guy got married with a woman, the woman would then be housewife and there's no need for them to work outside the house which means the housewife had to do all the house chore. This thing has been engraved in Thai people's brain for long long time until it became part of our culture, even so many things have changed right now.  Why did I talk about 'woman'?  I just want you to know that some Thai gay guys consider themselves as your 'housewives' which means they need to do some house chores to show you that they really...

HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCE DRAMA QUEEN ATTACK??? Hello gay guys! It's been a long time since my last update for my blog! Today I had an experience to meet up with one of my best friends and we had really nice conversation about Thai guys. That conversation reminded me something that I MUST write on this blog so I came straight here in order to write this article which is about something you guys wouldn't want to experience that much in Thai guys. Yes! I am gonna talk about 'drama queen' thing. If you have Thai boyfriend, I am quite sure that you've had this experience of some weird thing . Why do they become Drama Queens? First thing, gay people are still human beings, which means we still have feeling and conscience. It would be inevitable to become 'jealous' once you are made to believe that someone you are with is going to be with you forever and ever but later on he became different person. Read carefully please focus on 'made to bel...

Lose face? What the heck is this? Come on! don't pretend like you don't know it, just because you guys are hardly in this kind of situation but behold folks! This thing is really common in Thailand and maybe it's become part of the culture now. Well, losing face is feeling extremely embarrassed or being in a really really awkward situation... and that is what we, Thai people really hate! Geert Hofstede I think it is not fair to say that Thai guys are afraid to lose face as actually all Thai people are. First thing is, according to Geert Hofstede's Cultural dimension, Thai people has really high point for the concept of uncertainty avoidance culture, which means Thai people are afraid to to be in such an uncertain situation. Alright enough for academic article... let's go back to the reality However, it really makes sense. Now time to explain how we would be like if we are in 'face-losing' situation. Let me explain by telling the story. ...

I am sooooooo sure that many many of you have had experienced to meet up with some thai guys unless you wouldn't be reading this article! I am sure there are so many things you're still so confused. There might be millions of times that 'why' questions popped up in your head like you are 3 year-old boy who just get to know the world.  Even though you have had met up maybe more than a thousand of thai guys (as friends or whatever it can be) you still don't understand it all about Thai guys... Here are some facts that will tell you about what is hidden under that dark, smooth and sexy skin.   Iceberg culture  Let me put this in the easiest way to explain. Have you ever asked your Thai guy if he wants something on the dining table on your first date? Or even asked if he needed your helps? Well, literally he might say no but what he was thinking that time was maybe on the other hand. What I want to tell you is that ALMOST Thai guys don't mean wha...

Sa was dee gay guys! Welcome to my blog (actually is a very very first official gay blog I ever had) Very simple, this blog is meant for giving you guys knowledge about us, Thai gays. As I've been profound a lot about a ton of misunderstandings, conflicts and ridiculously infamous things about Thai gays. I've searched through the internet to read about attitude towards Thai gays in the blogs written by westerner authors. Around 70% of those blogs I've read were all bout some conflicts that those westerners had with Thai boys; money boys, liars, cheating, disrespectful manners, obnoxious ways of thinking etc. You guys are right as there are these kinds of person everywhere here but you are having a 'SINGLE STORY' about Thai boys! Now it's my turn to clarify and sort something out for you guys I am one of Thai gays who partly understands the concept of 'being gay in Thailand' Whether you are westerners or the local, you may have been educated or exp...