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What should you do once you move to Thailand

Good morning guys! I am finally back to sit down in front of my computer now!  Alright, many of you who are reading my blog right now might be living in Thailand right now or you guys would call yourselves "expat" which means that you might already know lots of things here in the land of smile. However, there are some of our people who really fancy to come to live here with many reasons. I've got a chance to meet someone who just moved here for a couple of weeks, of course, everything in this city is totally new for him especially the culture and life style - luckily it is in Bangkok so things are not really much different from where he used to live before - Europe. There were tons of questions coming out from him with his skeptical and wondering look in the eyes, I totally understand how he felt. Why do people here always smile? Why are all gay guys friendly? Why are there Money boys? and how would I know who is money boys? With those questions, I real...

How to handle when your Thai ex is haunting you

Hi gay guys! OMG! I have to apologise again about me being absent on updating my entry here but here I am again. Alright guys, I've been tired of having loquacious introduction on here. There is love so it won't be surprising that there will be a good-bye but what we are talking today is all about if it's a "good" good-bye or a bad-bye.  For good good-bye, you all know that it always ends up as a wonderful thing and you and your ex remain friend - that's really awesome I totally love it. But how about bad-bye and it became a nightmare??? What if your ex still couldn't let go? ...let you go?? What if your ex thought that there will be another episode of your love life? I know you are thinking of this guy He is creepy... Okey, when it comes to the situation of when you could feel that your ex is still around you and you see him every single place you go - stalking - you would feel uncomfortable. It's even worse when you have your new ...

Why does my Thai boyfriend always lie to me?

Hey there! As I've promised that I would write this blog more often and it's been a few days already so here I am again. Recently, I've talked with a lot of my good friends (who are of course foreigners) and I've heard these surprisingly repeated stories - just same thing with different characters in the stories. Those stories are so typical and classic and they all are about one thing - LIES! Today I want to write this entry in order to tell you guys how to tell when your thai boyfriend lies to you or not and how to deal with it when you know that your boyfriend chooses to lie to you. If you have experienced lies either from you thai boyfriend or friends, you would probably know how it is like for their lies. There's a saying - If thai guy's penis was like Pinocchio's nose, it would be recorded as the tallest penis in the universe (well, quite unrated)  Alright, the point is that - there are many reasons about why thai guys need to lie to you...

Hey mate! I think I feel something for you...

Hello gay guys! First, I totally apologise for being long absent - I hope many of you are still here waiting for my updates. Well, I am here! I have been busy with university and my time with friends at Silom and by going to Silom, I have learned a lot new things as I saw a lot going on there. Alright, most of the time I blogged about your boyfriend and there are  tons of stories I'd love to write them out. However, what I've just seen lately is not about your boyfriend but it's about someone who is so close to you - your friend. And this has been urging me to write this out today. Okey, before I start to explain anything in details - let me first tell you story. I have a chance to talk with someone whom I met in Silom soi 4 (if you have been to Silom you will know that Silom soi 4 is a party street where a lot of gay guys usually go to have a good time there) I remember I sat in the bar with 2 friends of mine and it was friday night - yes it was super busy - t...

The 84 minutes of amazing gay kiss!

Hello, my people! Today I am in a discovering mood (it's too early in the morning and my family visited me here but Id rather spend time on my blog), I found this video of two guys kissing for 84 minutes, continuously! However, this entry won't be about either thai guys, western guys, cultural explanation or some knowledge that makes you understand something more. I want to share this video in the manner of announcing gay right! The video was posted by Idan Bitton with the description; First Kiss is a 84 minute kiss video between the artists Idan Bitton and Alfredo Calle Ferran. While the camera is still, the kiss is in motion provoking the viewer to stay and watch. Idan and Alfredo do not interact with the viewer, but offer a peek into their intimate moments of commitment. This long lasting, present and unapologetic kiss defines our current gay rights momentum. We are here, we love each other, and this is what it looks like.  Idan Bitton and Alfredo Calle Ferran c...

"Farang" financial status, you Thai gays please behold!

Hello gay guys!  First, I have to apologize for you 2 things in this article… 1.) This article is not meant for you all westerners, on the other hand, it is for my people, thai gays.  2.) I told you guys before I wouldn't use the word "Farang" in this blog but this is really specific for Thai gays so it would be a bit conflicting. Alright if you, westerners, are reading this along with me it can be great as well because I am going to explain my people about the most irritating but important thing - Money.  Yes, Thai people have been taught for ages that all westerners have a lot of money to spend in Thailand as they can see it everyday that you guys spend money in Thailand like that money is just a bunch of leaves.  Alright, my people! Now behold, I have a ton of "Farang" friends telling me about our mistaken thought over their money. You see, we all have this kind of live circle - born, study and work.  And work is what I am focusing...

Greng Jai?! I Don't know!

Hello Gay guys, It's been ages that I have not written this blog I hope you guys still stick with me here. I do apologize as I had so many things going on lately; university things that always keep me busy such as my never-ending  exams, my freelance job which is my main income and my social life which is the award of my life- great time in "DJ station". Anyways, today  I would like to fulfill you with this long but not loquacious article in order to make up for my absence.  And the article today goes to "Greng Jai" thingy!  Greng Jai - noun, adj., verb  If you don't know what Greng Jai is… I would like to explain first as "greng jai" is totally important for Thai people and it plays the key role on Thai society and of course this greng jai thing is undoubtedly part of your thai guy.  Greng Jai has various meanings depending on the situations and I am going to explain its meanings as many as possible.  To put this ...