Thai gay, I am.

Hi guys, How was your weekend going? Having fun or some crazy time? Well, my party night is never get so boring when I go to Stranger Bar. I am sure many of you who are reading my blog at the moment might probably be there very often. Thanks picture from Stranger Bar But lately I'd rather spend my night as a sober boy and I got to see a lot of interesting things in my sober point of view. I got to see how all of my friends look like when they are wasted, I got to see how silom night life looks like when everybody was drunk and I was only one who wasn't and of course I got to see DJ station at another perspective. Importantly, I got to see something really interesting in DJ station. Of course I saw a lot of straight people in gay club :) I really wanna talk about cute things from straight people in DJ station.  One night, It started at the beginning of soi 2 where I was waiting for my lovely girl friend to arrive. There were 2 straight guys standing and wai...

Ever wonder why same-sex relationship, especially in Bangkok, ends really quickly? You have been seeing your friends - both western or asian - including yourself have been suffering from heartbreaking relationships and it happens for a reason or many reasons. You may know that major reasons are from how thai guys are such drama queens and when it comes to relationship, that never works. Even tho drama queen thing could lead to a lot of tensions in relationship, believe me there is something more than that. He wants to change you  Thai culture is well-known for the care and concern and by saying care it can reach to the point of "too much" sometimes. Seeing from the ancestor and being inbred, most of Thai guys are very caring and when they are into you, you are like his whole world. What's problem with that? Well, everybody is not perfect and you might have some bad habits that he is not pleased which makes him want so hard to try to make you a better person o...

Hi guys, Yes I am back again. However, I got a chance to read about an article on the internet from a blogger named iangalsm (to be honest, I don't know his real name but that is his blog name) He pointed out about the reasons why gay relationships don't last long (follow his article here)  The article drove me to the full level of motivation to write this blog. I stopped doing what I was doing after reading the article and came here to write this entry. Ian has said in the intelligent way and it is right to the point. While I was reading, the first thing that came across in my mind was "gay relationships in Bangkok" and here I am. I would so much like to integrate his article to explain about how a lot of beautiful castles end here. ( there are a lot of interesting articles on his blog maybe you guys want to try to read some as it is not only for asian-white gay people but it's for every gay on this planet earth) Alright so the first thing he was...

Hi guys! Happy Monday regardless if it's amazing or it is boring for you but hey at least another day has gone, weekend is just a few days to go! Be Positive guys! Alright, I think this question has been really really hot in Thailand at the moment when other countries are now legalising gay marriage plus as you all "know" that Thailand is a country that is open for gay community. The obvious thing in the society? You may hear about transgenders can become flight attendants in some airline here. But why don't we have legalized gay marriage here? I have done some research through the internet and some conversation with someone I know and I will point out with a few reasons why we don't have gay marriage here. 1.) We just don't care about it. As "most" of thai people are really okay with gay people here, some of us find gay people really interesting too, I guess that is one of the reasons we don't have gay marriage. Why do we nee...

Hi you all, First, I really need to apologise that my blog hasn't been really informative lately and full of my own drama. I've been really bumped out. I kind of admitted that yesterday was really hard time and it was killing me if i didn't do anything but blogged it here. Today is another day I've spent it for trying to figure it out how to get through this hard time of my life. I've talked to a few friends whom I always trust and believe they will be able to help me out. Some said I should simply let it go as life has so many things to concern about - do not let one person bring me down. Some said I should just acquiesce what I've done as I already realised that it wasn't a good thing to do especially when lying someone and what I have to do next is to move forward without letting this become a big obstacle in my life pathway - try to make it better next time. And so many of them told me try to accept some peaceful way of thinking, no grudge, no pessi...

Everytime, I watched Thai soap opera and when it came to depressive parts of it, I would always turn it off as it was always sad to think how people could handle such things, how they could manage to get through that kind of stuff or even how their lives would become after those hard times. I couldn't figure it out - not sure if it's because I am too stupid, too young or too blind to see the ways. But sadness is always like that, isn't it? No matter how much you try to avoid it, it always come to you. I used to think when I was a little child that I was the most happy boy in the world because I had everything. I have my lovely mom, my great dad and my supportive family. Then I've learned my life a lot these past years that life can't be interesting if you are not sad, uninspired and depressive.  I have had so many heartbreaking moments - there were so many that I, sometimes, just suddenly lost the faith in love. I used to believe that I might not need to l...

Good morning guys! I am finally back to sit down in front of my computer now!  Alright, many of you who are reading my blog right now might be living in Thailand right now or you guys would call yourselves "expat" which means that you might already know lots of things here in the land of smile. However, there are some of our people who really fancy to come to live here with many reasons. I've got a chance to meet someone who just moved here for a couple of weeks, of course, everything in this city is totally new for him especially the culture and life style - luckily it is in Bangkok so things are not really much different from where he used to live before - Europe. There were tons of questions coming out from him with his skeptical and wondering look in the eyes, I totally understand how he felt. Why do people here always smile? Why are all gay guys friendly? Why are there Money boys? and how would I know who is money boys? With those questions, I real...