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Why doesn't Thailand have gay marriage?

Hi guys! Happy Monday regardless if it's amazing or it is boring for you but hey at least another day has gone, weekend is just a few days to go! Be Positive guys! Alright, I think this question has been really really hot in Thailand at the moment when other countries are now legalising gay marriage plus as you all "know" that Thailand is a country that is open for gay community. The obvious thing in the society? You may hear about transgenders can become flight attendants in some airline here. But why don't we have legalized gay marriage here? I have done some research through the internet and some conversation with someone I know and I will point out with a few reasons why we don't have gay marriage here. 1.) We just don't care about it. As "most" of thai people are really okay with gay people here, some of us find gay people really interesting too, I guess that is one of the reasons we don't have gay marriage. Why do we nee...

Best ways to end your sadness - once and for all

Hi you all, First, I really need to apologise that my blog hasn't been really informative lately and full of my own drama. I've been really bumped out. I kind of admitted that yesterday was really hard time and it was killing me if i didn't do anything but blogged it here. Today is another day I've spent it for trying to figure it out how to get through this hard time of my life. I've talked to a few friends whom I always trust and believe they will be able to help me out. Some said I should simply let it go as life has so many things to concern about - do not let one person bring me down. Some said I should just acquiesce what I've done as I already realised that it wasn't a good thing to do especially when lying someone and what I have to do next is to move forward without letting this become a big obstacle in my life pathway - try to make it better next time. And so many of them told me try to accept some peaceful way of thinking, no grudge, no pessi...

Sadness doesn't last long, the mistakes that do.

Everytime, I watched Thai soap opera and when it came to depressive parts of it, I would always turn it off as it was always sad to think how people could handle such things, how they could manage to get through that kind of stuff or even how their lives would become after those hard times. I couldn't figure it out - not sure if it's because I am too stupid, too young or too blind to see the ways. But sadness is always like that, isn't it? No matter how much you try to avoid it, it always come to you. I used to think when I was a little child that I was the most happy boy in the world because I had everything. I have my lovely mom, my great dad and my supportive family. Then I've learned my life a lot these past years that life can't be interesting if you are not sad, uninspired and depressive.  I have had so many heartbreaking moments - there were so many that I, sometimes, just suddenly lost the faith in love. I used to believe that I might not need to l...

What should you do once you move to Thailand

Good morning guys! I am finally back to sit down in front of my computer now!  Alright, many of you who are reading my blog right now might be living in Thailand right now or you guys would call yourselves "expat" which means that you might already know lots of things here in the land of smile. However, there are some of our people who really fancy to come to live here with many reasons. I've got a chance to meet someone who just moved here for a couple of weeks, of course, everything in this city is totally new for him especially the culture and life style - luckily it is in Bangkok so things are not really much different from where he used to live before - Europe. There were tons of questions coming out from him with his skeptical and wondering look in the eyes, I totally understand how he felt. Why do people here always smile? Why are all gay guys friendly? Why are there Money boys? and how would I know who is money boys? With those questions, I real...

How to handle when your Thai ex is haunting you

Hi gay guys! OMG! I have to apologise again about me being absent on updating my entry here but here I am again. Alright guys, I've been tired of having loquacious introduction on here. There is love so it won't be surprising that there will be a good-bye but what we are talking today is all about if it's a "good" good-bye or a bad-bye.  For good good-bye, you all know that it always ends up as a wonderful thing and you and your ex remain friend - that's really awesome I totally love it. But how about bad-bye and it became a nightmare??? What if your ex still couldn't let go? ...let you go?? What if your ex thought that there will be another episode of your love life? I know you are thinking of this guy He is creepy... Okey, when it comes to the situation of when you could feel that your ex is still around you and you see him every single place you go - stalking - you would feel uncomfortable. It's even worse when you have your new ...

Why does my Thai boyfriend always lie to me?

Hey there! As I've promised that I would write this blog more often and it's been a few days already so here I am again. Recently, I've talked with a lot of my good friends (who are of course foreigners) and I've heard these surprisingly repeated stories - just same thing with different characters in the stories. Those stories are so typical and classic and they all are about one thing - LIES! Today I want to write this entry in order to tell you guys how to tell when your thai boyfriend lies to you or not and how to deal with it when you know that your boyfriend chooses to lie to you. If you have experienced lies either from you thai boyfriend or friends, you would probably know how it is like for their lies. There's a saying - If thai guy's penis was like Pinocchio's nose, it would be recorded as the tallest penis in the universe (well, quite unrated)  Alright, the point is that - there are many reasons about why thai guys need to lie to you...

Hey mate! I think I feel something for you...

Hello gay guys! First, I totally apologise for being long absent - I hope many of you are still here waiting for my updates. Well, I am here! I have been busy with university and my time with friends at Silom and by going to Silom, I have learned a lot new things as I saw a lot going on there. Alright, most of the time I blogged about your boyfriend and there are  tons of stories I'd love to write them out. However, what I've just seen lately is not about your boyfriend but it's about someone who is so close to you - your friend. And this has been urging me to write this out today. Okey, before I start to explain anything in details - let me first tell you story. I have a chance to talk with someone whom I met in Silom soi 4 (if you have been to Silom you will know that Silom soi 4 is a party street where a lot of gay guys usually go to have a good time there) I remember I sat in the bar with 2 friends of mine and it was friday night - yes it was super busy - t...