Thai gay, I am.

Hi guys, First thing, I think you guys know that I have to push myself so hard on my project that I have informed you all in previous entry. However,  this week is kinda a relaxing week for me and it is a good opportunity to write an entry (at least to make my blog not to be that abandoned) Well, if you have or had thai boyfriend (including some asian boyfriend) and you have to be away from him for quite sometime you would realize that almost every of his messages that he sent you would always include the word "I miss you" and many of you might feel a little weird when that escalated way too quickly. Here is the quick and brief explanation guys. According to our culture, no matter if it is gay or straight, thai people have the background culture on the idea of "missing somebody" and that runs too deep in us. When you are away from your cute little thai boy, it means you will not be able to spend time with him and that kinda makes him feel like some part of

A lot of people have been fighting for Gay Right all over of the world. Some countries have legalized gay marriage or even allowed them to have full right in law. However, Thailand is the country where Gay right isn't law but cultural benefit, which pretty much means we are doing so fine being gay here in Thailand. Since Gay community here is quite open and accepted (or is tolerated ) by most of people in this country, gay people can fully enjoy life and be what we want. However, there is only one big concern about gay people in Thailand - HIV infection. These past few years, the number of the HIV infected are increasing dramatically - let alone in Bangkok, the HIV infected rate has increased 11% between 1987 - 2011 and continuing to rise rapidly. There are so many reasons why we are risking it as gay people and one of the reasons is unsafe sex because of a better experience in sexual relationship - no condoms. I've searched through internet and found out that there

Hi guys, How was your weekend going? Having fun or some crazy time? Well, my party night is never get so boring when I go to Stranger Bar. I am sure many of you who are reading my blog at the moment might probably be there very often. Thanks picture from Stranger Bar But lately I'd rather spend my night as a sober boy and I got to see a lot of interesting things in my sober point of view. I got to see how all of my friends look like when they are wasted, I got to see how silom night life looks like when everybody was drunk and I was only one who wasn't and of course I got to see DJ station at another perspective. Importantly, I got to see something really interesting in DJ station. Of course I saw a lot of straight people in gay club :) I really wanna talk about cute things from straight people in DJ station.  One night, It started at the beginning of soi 2 where I was waiting for my lovely girl friend to arrive. There were 2 straight guys standing and wait

Ever wonder why same-sex relationship, especially in Bangkok, ends really quickly? You have been seeing your friends - both western or asian - including yourself have been suffering from heartbreaking relationships and it happens for a reason or many reasons. You may know that major reasons are from how thai guys are such drama queens and when it comes to relationship, that never works. Even tho drama queen thing could lead to a lot of tensions in relationship, believe me there is something more than that. He wants to change you  Thai culture is well-known for the care and concern and by saying care it can reach to the point of "too much" sometimes. Seeing from the ancestor and being inbred, most of Thai guys are very caring and when they are into you, you are like his whole world. What's problem with that? Well, everybody is not perfect and you might have some bad habits that he is not pleased which makes him want so hard to try to make you a better person o

Hi guys, Yes I am back again. However, I got a chance to read about an article on the internet from a blogger named iangalsm (to be honest, I don't know his real name but that is his blog name) He pointed out about the reasons why gay relationships don't last long (follow his article here)  The article drove me to the full level of motivation to write this blog. I stopped doing what I was doing after reading the article and came here to write this entry. Ian has said in the intelligent way and it is right to the point. While I was reading, the first thing that came across in my mind was "gay relationships in Bangkok" and here I am. I would so much like to integrate his article to explain about how a lot of beautiful castles end here. ( there are a lot of interesting articles on his blog maybe you guys want to try to read some as it is not only for asian-white gay people but it's for every gay on this planet earth) Alright so the first thing he was

Hi guys! Happy Monday regardless if it's amazing or it is boring for you but hey at least another day has gone, weekend is just a few days to go! Be Positive guys! Alright, I think this question has been really really hot in Thailand at the moment when other countries are now legalising gay marriage plus as you all "know" that Thailand is a country that is open for gay community. The obvious thing in the society? You may hear about transgenders can become flight attendants in some airline here. But why don't we have legalized gay marriage here? I have done some research through the internet and some conversation with someone I know and I will point out with a few reasons why we don't have gay marriage here. 1.) We just don't care about it. As "most" of thai people are really okay with gay people here, some of us find gay people really interesting too, I guess that is one of the reasons we don't have gay marriage. Why do we nee

Hi you all, First, I really need to apologise that my blog hasn't been really informative lately and full of my own drama. I've been really bumped out. I kind of admitted that yesterday was really hard time and it was killing me if i didn't do anything but blogged it here. Today is another day I've spent it for trying to figure it out how to get through this hard time of my life. I've talked to a few friends whom I always trust and believe they will be able to help me out. Some said I should simply let it go as life has so many things to concern about - do not let one person bring me down. Some said I should just acquiesce what I've done as I already realised that it wasn't a good thing to do especially when lying someone and what I have to do next is to move forward without letting this become a big obstacle in my life pathway - try to make it better next time. And so many of them told me try to accept some peaceful way of thinking, no grudge, no pessi

Everytime, I watched Thai soap opera and when it came to depressive parts of it, I would always turn it off as it was always sad to think how people could handle such things, how they could manage to get through that kind of stuff or even how their lives would become after those hard times. I couldn't figure it out - not sure if it's because I am too stupid, too young or too blind to see the ways. But sadness is always like that, isn't it? No matter how much you try to avoid it, it always come to you. I used to think when I was a little child that I was the most happy boy in the world because I had everything. I have my lovely mom, my great dad and my supportive family. Then I've learned my life a lot these past years that life can't be interesting if you are not sad, uninspired and depressive.  I have had so many heartbreaking moments - there were so many that I, sometimes, just suddenly lost the faith in love. I used to believe that I might not need to l

Good morning guys! I am finally back to sit down in front of my computer now!  Alright, many of you who are reading my blog right now might be living in Thailand right now or you guys would call yourselves "expat" which means that you might already know lots of things here in the land of smile. However, there are some of our people who really fancy to come to live here with many reasons. I've got a chance to meet someone who just moved here for a couple of weeks, of course, everything in this city is totally new for him especially the culture and life style - luckily it is in Bangkok so things are not really much different from where he used to live before - Europe. There were tons of questions coming out from him with his skeptical and wondering look in the eyes, I totally understand how he felt. Why do people here always smile? Why are all gay guys friendly? Why are there Money boys? and how would I know who is money boys? With those questions, I real

Hi gay guys! OMG! I have to apologise again about me being absent on updating my entry here but here I am again. Alright guys, I've been tired of having loquacious introduction on here. There is love so it won't be surprising that there will be a good-bye but what we are talking today is all about if it's a "good" good-bye or a bad-bye.  For good good-bye, you all know that it always ends up as a wonderful thing and you and your ex remain friend - that's really awesome I totally love it. But how about bad-bye and it became a nightmare??? What if your ex still couldn't let go? ...let you go?? What if your ex thought that there will be another episode of your love life? I know you are thinking of this guy He is creepy... Okey, when it comes to the situation of when you could feel that your ex is still around you and you see him every single place you go - stalking - you would feel uncomfortable. It's even worse when you have your new

Hey there! As I've promised that I would write this blog more often and it's been a few days already so here I am again. Recently, I've talked with a lot of my good friends (who are of course foreigners) and I've heard these surprisingly repeated stories - just same thing with different characters in the stories. Those stories are so typical and classic and they all are about one thing - LIES! Today I want to write this entry in order to tell you guys how to tell when your thai boyfriend lies to you or not and how to deal with it when you know that your boyfriend chooses to lie to you. If you have experienced lies either from you thai boyfriend or friends, you would probably know how it is like for their lies. There's a saying - If thai guy's penis was like Pinocchio's nose, it would be recorded as the tallest penis in the universe (well, quite unrated)  Alright, the point is that - there are many reasons about why thai guys need to lie to you

Hello gay guys! First, I totally apologise for being long absent - I hope many of you are still here waiting for my updates. Well, I am here! I have been busy with university and my time with friends at Silom and by going to Silom, I have learned a lot new things as I saw a lot going on there. Alright, most of the time I blogged about your boyfriend and there are  tons of stories I'd love to write them out. However, what I've just seen lately is not about your boyfriend but it's about someone who is so close to you - your friend. And this has been urging me to write this out today. Okey, before I start to explain anything in details - let me first tell you story. I have a chance to talk with someone whom I met in Silom soi 4 (if you have been to Silom you will know that Silom soi 4 is a party street where a lot of gay guys usually go to have a good time there) I remember I sat in the bar with 2 friends of mine and it was friday night - yes it was super busy - t